Life Denny McLain Womens Jersey , death. One is as certain as the other. And many people, in fact, prepare themselves for the latter a lot more thoroughly than for the former. There's the life insurance which thoughtful people take out to ensure that those loved one left behind will end up more prosperous with you dead, then they ever were while you were alive. Or if you're too selfish to do that, at least you'll leave enough money for your loved ones to bury you with dignity once you've kicked the bucket.
But as for life, it's just supposed to happen. And if those feelings of dread that we're often subjected to at odd moments of the day or night are any indication Lance Parrish Womens Jersey , most of us do, indeed, live our lives with ?quiet desperation?.
And yet, according to Lynn Grabhorn, we are the creators of our own lives. Good or bad, fairy tale or just grim Sparky Anderson Womens Jersey , the lives we have are not necessarily the lives we deserve, or want, or wish for, but none the less, are the lives that we have created for ourselves.
Working at a job you hate? Drowning in debt? Partner has just left you with a ?Dear John? letter?
If you've been blaming conditions, people Miguel Cabrera Womens Jersey , governments, circumstances, according to Lynn you're blaming the wrong people. The person who is to blame is you.
Life is not a lottery with some people having it all and others born to suffer. Life is not a matter of incidence or coincidence. If there's anything in your life which you don't like, look no further than your feelings.
The feelings you harbour every minute of every day is what creates the kind of life you have right now. It has nothing to do with whether you're a good person or a bad person, whether you're a benevolent person or a selfish person. It's all about your feelings.
Make no mistake, good people Christin Stewart Womens Jersey , like you and I, who don't steal or kill, or do any of the other nasties we're not supposed to do, are not necessarily happy people. The quality of our lives are not created by the fa?ade we present to the world. It's the feelings inside.
If you've ever though to yourself, there must be more to life than this, than take a sneak look at your mental obsessions. If your main concerns are yesterday's mistakes Nick Castellanos Womens Jersey , today's challenges, and tomorrow's uncertainties, than don't look any further to find out why your life is not the happy experience it ought to be.
We all know the story. Your boss is smart, dynamic, stylish and successful. You feel great when he smiles at you after you've impressed him. He believes in mentoring and guiding you to bring out your very best and he's not shy about praising you when you deliver. Then, after one too many late nights in the office working on that special project Josh Harrison Womens Jersey , he starts to drive you absolutely crazy. You want him, oh dear, and how. What should you do?
Take stock
Assess the situation. Ask yourself: Is it really a good idea to make a move on the boss? Is he even interested in you? Is he actually available? How would the rest of the office react if something did happen? How would this affect your career? Is this a risk that is actually worth taking?
Reasons against a romance
Think of the embarrassment if you try to make a move and he backs away in shock. Not to mention the reaction of your co-workers when they find out -and they always find out. Then there is that promotion the whole office has been vying for. How will it look if you are dating the boss and get the promotion? Or will he pass you over for appearances sake even if you are the best person for the job? Then there is the reality of a relationship with this person and the constant talk of . Finally, what happens when the hot romance goes cold? Will you really want to see him every day? Will he want to see you?
Reasons for a romance
He is good looking and there is only one of him. You could always find another job. But as a career coach, I would definitely not recommend this as a good career choice.
How to resist
Use association. Whenever you get that feeling and can't stop thinking about romance with your boss, just think about - or associate the thought with - all of the negative aspects of an office romance. The boring office-talk on romantic weekends away Kirk Gibson Womens Jersey , the scorn of your workmates and above all the potentially devastating impact on your career.
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See a pattern? Let's try one more. The big headline reads: "Lose 28 lbs by Thanksgiving". How? Perhaps the big picture of a "Oreo Cookie Cheesecake" labeled "Yum!" will give us a hint. Or the promise of "Best-ever Potluck recipes".
OK. By now I am sure you see the pattern. That's right ? poor grammar, punctuation and capitalization.